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The Brand Lexicon: How to Own Conversation You’ll Never Be In

The owner of a new shop opens ChatGPT and asks: “What’s the best way to start getting leads in?”

They’re not thinking about CRMs or lead scoring or nurture sequences. They’ve only thought as far as finding a way to collect the names, phone numbers, and emails of potential customers and dump them into a spreadsheet. Or something. Some way to follow up later.

This conversation is happening right now. Thousands of times a day. And it represents a massive untapped opportunity.

Here’s what I’m seeing: generative AI has created a blue ocean of influence where brands can shape thinking at the foundational level. It’s not the traditional search moment when someone types “best CRM for small business.” It’s the curiosity-driven, exploration phase where people ask AI to “explain to me” and “help me understand” –  long before they know they need your product.

This is where a branded lexicon becomes your secret weapon. 

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The Conversations You’re Missing

Before ChatGPT, this kind of education happened on sales calls. Sales teams spent time explaining basics before they could start selling – enabling their own sales. Now these conversations happen in AI chats, without you in the room.

Now, those conversations happen in AI chats, without you in the room.

When someone asks:

  • “Is my email list basically a CRM?”
  • “Walk me through how targeting prospects usually works.”

…that’s a prime opportunity for your brand’s DNA to influence the discussion. Not through product placement, but through language and frameworks that shape how they think about the problem.

The person asking these questions isn’t ready to buy yet. They’re just trying to get up to speed. But the POV they absorb in that moment will influence every subsequent conversation they have about the topic.

Wield your branded lexicon as a precision tool for teaching AIs who you are and what you’re about. You do that, and AIs will understand when to surface you and for whom. 

How Language Shapes Industry Thinking

At The Shelf, we shaped the conversation around “Interest Graph influencer marketing.” We didn’t just create content about it though. We consistently used that exact phrase across every touchpoint. And it carried weight. I know that because our competitors would download our assets, read our articles, and show up at our webinars. Twenty-five percent of our guide downloads came from competitors.

That content didn’t just generate leads. It reshaped how the entire industry talked about the space. And that’s exactly what it was designed to do. Not necessarily drum up a bunch of leads, but to position the org as leaders around that particular influencer marketing tactic. It was a POV a year before it became something we were known for. 

Imagine if we’d had a full branded lexicon. Every concept, every framework, every key insight tied to memorable, descriptive terms that only our agency used consistently. That’s exponential influence.

The Blue Ocean of Pre-Intent Influence

There’s a massive opportunity to influence conversations where your product will never be mentioned by name –  not because AI is hiding anything, but because it’s not the right time yet.

AI reads the room. That’s super important to remember. AI environments are more nuanced than search.

When someone asks exploratory questions, they’re seeking understanding, not vendor recommendations. But the frameworks, language, and perspectives that seekers absorb in those conversations will shape their entire buyer journey.

A branded lexicon ensures your thinking travels without you. Terms like “ambient discovery” or “stumble-uponable brand” aren’t just clever phrases –  they’re mental shortcuts that anchor my concepts to your perspective. 

(You’re welcome, btw.) 

In the same way, when people start using your language to describe their problems, you’ve already won.

An Analog from the Offline World

Back when I owned a window company, my partner and I entered the glass block window industry in Detroit. Two big companies dominated nearby suburbs, and we had one competitor inside the city.

We launched a full marketing blitz – signs, commercials, flyers, a website. We were cherrypicking homes and paying homeowners a small fee every month to “rent space” in their yards for our yard signs. We were everywhere. Within months, our branding became the mental shortcut people used to think about “security windows.” And then it happened: our in-city competitor started copying our signs exactly. Same design. Same colors. She changed only the phone number and logo.

Why? Because we had already done the work of shaping the market’s visual and conceptual understanding of the product. We had given “security windows” a distinctive look and feel.

That’s exactly what happens when you use a brand lexicon in the AI era. You define the conversation’s shape – the words, concepts, and metaphors that people (and AI) will use to explain a space. Others might echo your language, but you’ll always be the origin point. And when buyers reach the point of differentiating between providers, that origin point becomes an enormous credibility advantage.

Why This Matters Right Now

Generative AI is optimized for exploration and understanding, not just intent-based queries. People spend hours in these conversations, getting educated on topics they’ve never thought about before. This is happening parallel to traditional search behavior, creating an entirely new influence channel.

If your language and frameworks aren’t seeded in AI’s knowledge space, the conversation still happens – it just doesn’t reflect your POV. Someone else’s thinking shapes the discussion. Someone else’s terms become the standard vocabulary.

But when your branded terms consistently appear across LinkedIn posts, blog articles, podcast transcripts, and glossary pages, something powerful happens: your perspective becomes part of how AI explains your entire category.

The Lexicon Advantage

A branded lexicon does three things traditional marketing can’t:

#1. Shapes mental models before buying intent forms
By the time someone’s ready for vendor conversations, they’re already using your language to describe their needs.

#2. Creates trackable influence
When your terms appear in search queries, AI outputs, or competitor content, you can see your perspective spreading.

#3. Builds instant credibility
When AI educates someone using frameworks you created, you’re no longer just another vendor. You’re the thought leader who defined the category’s mental model.


The New Influence Layer

This isn’t about competing for mentions or fighting for share of voice. It’s about occupying a blue ocean where your ideas travel without you, shaping industry conversations at the foundational level. Dropping breadcrumbs along the path to purchase.

The conversations are happening whether you’re in them or not. The question is whether your perspective is part of the discussion.

A branded lexicon ensures it is.


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About Sorilbran

Thinker. Writer. Strategist.

Out here in these digital streets, trying to be a good human, write the next backyard barbecue anthem, and keep a finger on the pulse of innovation.

All while training my girls – and the data – in real time.

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